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2020-07-21T12:54:14Z

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Katie Piper with her mum Diane Katie Piper's mother Diane nursed her back from the hell of a life-changing attack. Now Katie explains why it's her turn to be the rock Katie's story Katie, 36, lives with her husband Richard and their children Belle, six, and Penelope, two I was a nightmare teenager for my mother. We lived in Hampshire and she was a teacher. Her life revolved around education, being sensible and not making a fuss. There I was, underage drinking, smoking and constantly having rows. I went to college to study hair and beauty - my dad was a barber and I think they were relieved I would have a sensible job. But when I was 19 I met a load of girls from London, moved in with them and started going to auditions for modelling. My mum was not impressed but I didn't care. As I kept telling her, I never wanted to be like her. Everything changed in March 2008, when I was 24. I was taken to hospital after acid had been thrown over me. [Katie had been raped by her jealous ex Daniel Lynch who then arranged for an accomplice, Stefan Sylvestre, to throw sulphuric acid at her; both attackers were convicted and given life sentences.] I didn't know what was happening. I was blind in both eyes. As well as the agony I was in, all I could hear was male voices around me which made me feel incredibly vulnerable and scared. Then amid the noise I heard my mum and I felt safer. It was incredible the effect the sound of her voice had on me. KATIE with her mum Diane, aged five in 1989 My parents didn't leave my side for the seven weeks I was in hospital - and for months after. My dad is a very emotional guy - he cries at The X Factor - but my mum has never been like that. She was brought up with very Victorian-style parenting. It breaks my heart that her dad told her if she ever needed to cry, to go upstairs quietly and weep into her pillow. But that made her very strong and, in my worst moment, I needed that strength. It was an awful time. I couldn't see, I knew I was completely disfigured and there were so many medical complications caused by the damage from the acid. I also knew the men who did this hadn't been caught and I didn't think they ever would be. I was on massive doses of drugs. There was a point when the doctors came to talk about the next operation and I shook my head and wrote a note saying: ‘Kill me.' Now I have two girls myself, I can't imagine how that felt, but my mum just held my hand and pushed on. She was never fluffy, she never told me everything would turn out well, she just encouraged me to take step after step. She took photos every day. It was the teacher in her that refused to sugar-coat the truth but wanted me to see improvements. And also, I know now, that she wanted documentation in case anything happened to me. She was going to fight for justice - she wasn't ever going to let me down. I feel so grateful to her. When I came out of hospital she looked after me, physically and emotionally. I needed her for everything, from my personal hygiene to my medical needs. There were lots of times I used her as a punchbag. I could take all my anger out on her because I knew she'd never walk away. Mum took early retirement so she could always be with me. I've said sorry so many times. During everything I went through, my mum became the closest person to me. My life changed again in many wonderful ways but when I found out I was pregnant with Belle, I was so happy. I'd thought I might never be able to have a baby and my first call was to my mum. She told me she was about to call me because she'd been diagnosed with bowel cancer. I felt my pregnancy had to be the light to her dark. I would take her to events I was invited to; we did lots of lovely things that sound superficial but because she saw so many terrible things through me, I wanted to balance that with happy memories. Six years later we are in lockdown. We speak every day but in those years the cancer spread to her lung, liver, skin and now her lymph glands. Rules are relaxing but I would not risk her health because I love her so much. She still never makes a fuss but it's my turn to be strong. With my kids, I try to be the mother she was with me: [https://www.kynghidongduong.vn/tours/tour-du-lich-ha-noi-bac-kan-ho-ba-be-cao-bang-hang-pac-bo-thac-ban-gioc.html tour thác bản giốc] reading, making playdough, listening, giving strength and unconditional love. Now - with those teenage years long gone - the woman I most want to be like is my mother. 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But you have to keep going and put your faith in the doctors. It was hard for her. I never wanted Katie to see me cry - it wouldn't help her, so I cried in private. Katie came to live with us after she left hospital. It was a difficult time. My husband David and I had to keep everything going - eye drops in the morning, four massages a day. She didn't like it, and took out her anger on us, but I understood. I kept a diary back then but I don't look at it now. There was so much to take in and do. Meetings with doctors, the police, psychologists and keeping the daily routine. I took leave from work and on top of everything I was worrying about, I worried about Katie's future. All I could see was her continuing to live with us, a hermit's existence, always scared. There was a lot of fear in the early days before the men who did this were caught. She would be terrified if the phone rang or there was a knock at the door. We changed our number and took our names off the electoral register. Fear is contagious and I felt it too. Katie saw a psychologist which really helped her. David and I saw him too because it was difficult for us to cope. Small changes started to happen - she would joke about one ear which was more badly burnt than the other. She let us celebrate her birthday with a little party and a few of her friends. Then one day she came downstairs and said: ‘I'm going to the shop.' I was really worried. I asked if she wanted me to go with her, or to walk halfway, and she said: ‘No.' I watched her go from the garden gate, her thin legs disappearing into the distance. I felt like I did on her first day at school. I was terrified she'd panic and run into the road or that something would happen. I worked out how long it would take to get there and back and kept walking into the street looking for her. She came back smiling. ‘Stop worrying, Mum,' she said. I knew then that she would be OK. I watch her now and I'm so proud of her. I don't know where this spirit comes from but she has [https://www.behance.net/search?content=projects&sort=appreciations&time=week&search=touched touched] so many people. She is brave, compassionate and absolutely determined to make a difference. She wants to fix everything. When I told her about my cancer, the next day a juicer and a huge box of fresh fruit and vegetables appeared on the doorstep. She comes with me to my appointments, even when I tell her not to. ‘You were my hospital buddy, I'm going to be yours,' she says. What Katie has done is amazing. But I think the greatest and most incredible thing is her getting married and having two wonderful girls. Honestly, I never thought that would happen, especially when I look back to those dark times. She's a wonderful mother and she's happy, which is all you want for your children. During lockdown I haven't been able to see her but we speak all the time and she can always make me laugh. Katie never gives up hope, which is a great lesson for everyone. Katie and Diane in four Describe each other Katie Strong, intelligent, reliable, selfless. Diane Brave, loving, determined, articulate. Their worst habit? Katie Sending me [http://www.bbc.co.uk/search/?q=grammatical%20corrections grammatical corrections] on my social-media posts. Diane Her impatience. If a suggestion is made she will want to do it without thinking. When you're together... Katie She tells stories about my childhood. Diane We eat, we drink lots of tea and we always find something to laugh about. Your favourite memory of each other? Katie Sitting at the table sticking pictures from catalogues into a book of stories I had made up with my mum sitting next to me, listening and being absolutely present. Diane Watching her walk down the aisle on her father's arm. I don't cry easily but my eyes were filled with tears when I saw her. Katie Piper's Extraordinary People podcast is available now. For information on Katie's charity, [https://www.kynghidongduong.vn/tours/tour-du-lich-ha-noi-bac-kan-ho-ba-be-cao-bang-hang-pac-bo-thac-ban-gioc.html kynghidongduong.vn] visit [ ][ you.co.uk Privacy Policy] data-track-module="am-external-links^external-links"> Read more: [ Katie Piper Foundation - Katie Piper Foundation] DM.later('bundle', function() DM.has('external-source-links', 'externalLinkTracker'); );

Apos;It apos;s Not My Fault I Am White apos;: Bernie apos;s Bizarre Defence In Race Row

2020-07-21T00:42:31Z

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Bernie Ecclestone has insisted that he does not care if someone is ‘yellow, green, brown or pink' after being cold-shouldered by his successor as Formula One boss, Chase Carey, for saying that ‘a lot of black people are more racist than white people'. The controversial remarks, made in a TV interview aired on Friday, also ignited a row with six-time world champion Lewis Hamilton, who criticised the man who built the modern sport he dominates. ‘So sad and [https://www.kynghidongduong.vn/tours/tour-du-lich-ha-noi-bac-kan-ho-ba-be-cao-bang-hang-pac-bo-thac-ban-gioc.html tour thác bản giốc] disappointing to read these comments,' said the Mercedes driver, who is preparing for the opening race in Austria next Sunday. ‘Bernie is out of the sport and of a different generation. Bernie Ecclestone vowed not to be sidelined from F1 or prevented from going to races RELATED ARTICLES [# Previous] [# 1] [# Next] [/news/article-8444173/Lewis-Hamilton-reveals-target-racist-abuse-eight-years-old.html Lewis Hamilton blasts British society's 'implicit' racism,...] [/news/article-8181521/Former-Formula-1-boss-father-fourth-time-wife-Fabiana-Flosi.html Former Formula 1 boss Bernie Ecclestone, 89, to become a...] Share this article Share ‘But this is exactly what is wrong — [http://pixabay.com/en/new-zealand-waterfall-nature-ignorant/ ignorant] and uneducated comments which show how far we as a society need to go before real equality can happen. ‘It makes complete sense to me now that nothing was said or done to make our sport more diverse or to address the racial abuse I received throughout my career. Now the time for change has come.' Hamilton has stepped up his fight for parity since African-American George Floyd died under the knee of a white policeman in Minneapolis last month — a campaign Ecclestone, 89, called ‘wonderful' before making his divisive observation. Bernie Ecclestone said he was 'surprised' Lewis Hamilton was upset by racial abuse That caused F1 chief executive Carey to sign off a statement on Friday that unusually censured his predecessor's sentiments as having ‘no place in F1 or society'. It added: ‘We completely disagree with him. Mr Ecclestone has played no role in F1 since he left our organisation in 2017. His title of chairman emeritus, which was honorific, expired in June 2020.' That last sentence came as news to Ecclestone at his home in Switzerland, where his Brazilian wife Fabiana, 44, is heavily pregnant with their first son, and sparked an angry rebuke from the old boss to the new. In an interview with The Mail on Sunday, Ecclestone vowed not to be sidelined from F1 or prevented from going to Grands Prix — an idea discussed among F1 officials over the last 36 hours — whenever he wanted. ‘Ban me from races?' said Ecclestone, who remains in close contact with a number of race promoters and teams. ‘I wouldn't advise them to do that. They might want to try it in Russia [a reference to his close friendship with President Putin]. I think I could probably find a pass. Formula One boss Chase Carey approved a message distancing the sport from Ecclestone ‘When Chase asked me to step down, he made a big thing about how important the title he was giving me was. People in America would kill for it, he told me. ‘It didn't matter to me. I'm not bothered about titles. I turned down something bigger in Britain. I was made a doctor by an English university (Imperial College London) 20 years ago. I don't go around calling myself Dr Ecclestone. ‘I'm glad he said I have no involvement in Formula One, so I can't be credited with all the things they've not done. They have jumped on this racism thing suddenly because of events in America. Now Chase has put in all of $1million — enough to get a mechanic into go-karting. Maybe he should concentrate on doing what the shareholders want. Covid was good for him. He could blame everything he hasn't achieved on that.' Concentrating on the racism issue, Ecclestone said: ‘I am not anti black people. Quite the opposite. I have always been very much in favour. In fact, Lewis's dad wanted to go into business with me. He made some nice rowing machines. I would never even have considered it if I had been anti-black. If the project had been right, I would have done it. Six-time F1 champion Lewis Hamilton has been vocal in his support for Black Lives Matter ‘Over the years, I have met a lot of white people I didn't like, but never a black person I didn't like. ‘I've been mugged a couple of times, once by three black guys. I ended up in hospital, [https://www.kynghidongduong.vn/tours/tour-du-lich-ha-noi-bac-kan-ho-ba-be-cao-bang-hang-pac-bo-thac-ban-gioc.html kynghidongduong.vn] but even after that I was never against anyone who was black. I don't think of Lewis as black or anything else. He's just Lewis to me. ‘If a black person or a white person gets turned down for a job you have to ask why. Was it because of their skin colour, or was it because they weren't up to the job? That is what I was saying. ‘And then people go on these marches, organised by quasi-Marxists who want to bring down the police, which would be a disaster for the country. If you asked most of them what exactly they were protesting about they probably wouldn't know. Lewis Hamilton was taunted by fans at the Spanish Grand Prix in 2008 and again in 2009 Bernie Ecclestone made a series of shocking claims during an interview with CNN Sport ‘It's not my fault I am white, or that I am a little shorter than the next man. I was called Titch at school. I realised I had to do something about it. Black people should look after themselves. ‘[Former McLaren boss] Ron Dennis didn't stand in Lewis' way when he was a boy. He looked after him. Willy T [Ribbs] was the first black man to drive an F1 car, for me, in the Seventies. ‘When I lost my driving licence, I had a black driver, not because he was black, but because I didn't care whether he was black or white. Now it's suddenly fashionable to talk about diversity.' Ecclestone is accustomed to controversy. He has previously voiced support for Adolf Hitler on the grounds that he got things done. Putin, with whom he is on hugging terms, is his favourite current world leader. Red Bull owner Dietrich Mateschitz invited Ecclestone to Austria for next week's opener, but he will stay at home. ‘I've been to a lot of races, but I've never had a son,' he reasoned. ‘But I'll be along in Hungary or Monza, for sure.' RELATED ARTICLES [# Previous] [# 1] [# Next] [/news/article-8444173/Lewis-Hamilton-reveals-target-racist-abuse-eight-years-old.html Lewis Hamilton blasts British society's 'implicit' racism,...] [/news/article-8181521/Former-Formula-1-boss-father-fourth-time-wife-Fabiana-Flosi.html Former Formula 1 boss Bernie Ecclestone, 89, to become a...] Share this article Share data-track-module="am-external-links^external-links"> Read more: [ Bernie Ecclestone: 'In lots of cases, Black people are more racist than White people,' says ex-Formula One supremo - CNN] DM.later('bundle', function() DM.has('external-source-links', 'externalLinkTracker'); );

Turnover Plunges At Cambridge Satchel Company

2020-07-20T18:32:52Z

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Turnover plunged by a fifth at the Cambridge Satchel Company despite the bag brand launching a new design and [https://www.kynghidongduong.vn/tours/tour-du-lich-ha-noi-bac-kan-ho-ba-be-cao-bang-hang-pac-bo-thac-ban-gioc.html tour thác bản giốc] running an advert in fashion bible Vogue. The firm, whose bags are a favourite of Louise Redknapp, Emma Stone and Alex Chung, made a loss of £1.4m in the year to June 2019 - down from £1.5m in 2018 - as sales fell everywhere, including by £800,000 in the UK. This came despite the fact that its new bag 'exceeded expectations', the group said. Struggle: The company was founded in 2008 by Julie Deane (above right) and is a favourite of Louise Redknapp The company was founded in 2008 by Julie Deane and her mother Freda Thomas at Deane's kitchen table. The firm expects to take a hit from lower demand during the pandemic, [https://www.kynghidongduong.vn/tours/tour-du-lich-ha-noi-bac-kan-ho-ba-be-cao-bang-hang-pac-bo-thac-ban-gioc.html kynghidongduong.vn] which will mean it won't break even until 2021. RELATED ARTICLES [# Previous] [# 1] [# Next] [/money/news/article-7119623/Cambridge-Satchel-fails-bag-profit-aggressive-expansion-overseas.html Cambridge Satchel fails again to bag a profit after...] [/money/smallbusiness/article-2533845/Julie-Deanes-The-Cambridge-Satchel-Company-sells-120-countries-300-imitators.html 'I was told NO ONE wants satchels - thank heavens I took no...] [/money/markets/article-8146911/Handbag-maker-Mulberry-expects-make-small-loss.html High-end handbag maker Mulberry warns it's on for a loss due...] [/money/markets/article-7610925/Soaring-Chinese-demand-handbags-help-Hermes-weather-Hong-Kong-strife.html Soaring demand for its posh handbags in China help Hermes...] Share this article Share But it added that it's seeing more activity online than normal. A Hong Kong-based private equity investor, Cassia, bought into the company in December to fuel an expansion of the business. #fiveDealsWidget .dealItemTitle#mobile display:none #fiveDealsWidget display:block; float:left; clear:both; max-width:636px; margin:0; padding:0; line-height:120%; font-size:12px #fiveDealsWidget div, #fiveDealsWidget a margin:0; padding:0; line-height:120%; text-decoration: none; font-family:Arial, Helvetica ,sans-serif #fiveDealsWidget .widgetTitleBox display:block; float:left; width:100%; background-color:#af1e1e; #fiveDealsWidget .widgetTitle color:#fff; text-transform: uppercase; font-size:18px; font-weight:bold; margin:6px 10px 4px 10px; #fiveDealsWidget a.dealItem float:left; display:block; width:124px; margin-right:4px; margin-top:5px; background-color: #e3e3e3; min-height:200px; #fiveDealsWidget a.dealItem#last margin-right:0 #fiveDealsWidget .dealItemTitle display:block; margin:10px 5px; color:#000; font-weight:bold #fiveDealsWidget .dealItemImage, #fiveDealsWidget .dealItemImage img float:left; display:block; margin:0; padding:0 #fiveDealsWidget .dealItemImage border:1px solid #ccc #fiveDealsWidget .dealItemImage img width:100%; height:auto #fiveDealsWidget .dealItemdesc float:left; display:block; color:#004db3; font-weight:bold; margin:5px; #fiveDealsWidget .[http://www.msnbc.com/search/dealItemRate dealItemRate] float:left; display:block; color:#000; margin:5px #fiveDealsWidget .footerText a:hovertext-decoration: underline; #fiveDealsWidget .footerSmallfont-size:10px; padding-top:10px; @media (max-width: [https://www.kynghidongduong.vn/tours/tour-du-lich-ha-noi-bac-kan-ho-ba-be-cao-bang-hang-pac-bo-thac-ban-gioc.html tour thác bản giốc] 635px) #fiveDealsWidget a.dealItem width:19%; margin-right:1% #fiveDealsWidget a.dealItem#last width:20% @media (max-width: 560px) #fiveDealsWidget #desktop display:none; #fiveDealsWidget #mobile display:block!important #fiveDealsWidget a.[http://www.answers.com/topic/dealItem dealItem] background-color: #fff; height:auto; min-height:auto #fiveDealsWidget a.dealItem border-bottom:1px solid #ececec; margin-bottom:5px; padding-bottom:10px #fiveDealsWidget a.dealItem#last border-bottom:0px solid #ececec; margin-bottom:5px; padding-bottom:0px #fiveDealsWidget a.dealItem, #fiveDealsWidget a.dealItem#last width:100% #fiveDealsWidget .dealItemContent, #fiveDealsWidget .dealItemImage float:left; display:inline-block #fiveDealsWidget .dealItemImage width:35%; margin-right:1% #fiveDealsWidget .dealItemContent width:63% #fiveDealsWidget .dealItemTitle margin: 0px 5px 5px; font-size:16px #fiveDealsWidget .dealItemContent .dealItemdesc, #fiveDealsWidget .dealItemContent .dealItemRate clear:both TOP DIY INVESTING PLATFORMS [ Low cost portfolios Low cost portfolios Cheap funds fee £1.50 fund dealing] [ Investment ideas Free fund dealing First deal free Annual 0.45 per cent account charge] [ Free investing No fees Free investing Regular investing with no fees] [ Flat fees Great service Fixed monthly cost Dealing from £7.50] [ Model portfolios Model portfolios Free fund dealing Tools and fund ideas] [ > Compare the best investing platform for you]

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